Understanding the Difference Between Mediation and Arbitration

Laura E. Shapiro -

When you’re facing a legal dispute, understanding the difference between mediation and arbitration is crucial.

Knowing which option is right can significantly impact the outcome of your situation.

In Denver family law cases, courts almost always require mediation as a first step.

However, mediation isn’t always the ideal solution.

For some people, arbitration, which involves a neutral third party making a binding decision, can be a better choice.

In this article, Denver family law attorney Laura Shapiro clearly explains the key differences between mediation and arbitration, helping you confidently select the best path forward.

A mediator sitting between opposing parties.

What is the Purpose of Mediation and Arbitration?

Mediation is a collaborative process involving a neutral third party, the mediator, who helps the disputing parties reach a mutual settlement agreement.

Unlike court proceedings, mediation is non-binding, meaning the parties maintain control over the final decision.

However, here’s something important:

In Denver, you can file a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) with the court that memorializes the agreements made in mediation.

Once the court has accepted your MOU, it becomes a legally binding and enforceable court order.

In contrast

Arbitration involves a more formal process. A neutral third party, called an arbitrator, reviews evidence and makes a binding decision.

This arbitrator’s decision is enforceable by law, similar to a court ruling.

While arbitration is often used in commercial disputes, real estate, and employment issues, you also have the option to arbitrate your family law matter.

The Mediation Process

Divorce Mediation offers a flexible and informal approach to resolving your legal dispute.

Opposing parties will either agree on their own or be ordered by the court to attend mediation sessions.

Once the parties have agreed on a certified mediator, mediation will take place either virtually or in person.

The ultimate goal?

To help both parties find common ground and reach a mutually acceptable settlement agreement.

Unlike court trials or arbitration, the mediator does not make decisions for you.

Mediator’s Role

The mediator’s role is to facilitate open dialogue, guide negotiations, and help parties collaborate toward an agreement.

Mediators encourage cooperation without offering legal advice or making judgments, ensuring you retain control over the outcomes.

Benefits of Mediation

  • Voluntary and collaborative: Ideal for when preserving relationships is important, such as a divorce involving children, family businesses, or ongoing partnerships.
  • Confidentiality: Unlike a court trial or arbitration, what occurs in mediation remains private.
  • Control over the outcome: Parties directly control the decisions, making mediation ideal for disputes where mutual agreement matters.
  • Cost-effective: Typically involves lower legal fees compared to traditional litigation or arbitration, making mediation a financially smarter choice for resolving your dispute.
  • Time-efficient: No waiting on court schedules. Mediation allows quicker resolutions, significantly reducing the duration and stress involved in your legal dispute.

Consider the proven benefits of mediation and discover how it can save you time, money, and emotional strain.

What is Arbitration?

In arbitration, the arbitrator acts as a private judge and makes a binding decision known as an arbitration award.

In Fact

Many arbitrators are retired judges, bringing extensive legal experience.

Unlike mediation, the arbitration process is more formal, resembling a court hearing.

Did you know? Arbitration agreements are often included in construction contracts and business agreements, but typically not in agreements for family law cases.

Arbitration Process

The process begins by selecting an arbitrator based on their expertise relevant to your specific legal issues.

Both parties then submit legal arguments and present evidence through exhibits, and the arbitrator makes a decision.

This binding decision can only be challenged under specific circumstances, such as procedural errors or fraud.

Steps to the arbitration process.

Role of the Arbitrator

Unlike mediators, arbitrators deliver a legally enforceable arbitration award to resolve disputes.

You should choose an arbitrator based on their expertise in the specific legal matters involved in your case, such as divorce, real estate, employment law, or complex business cases.

Arbitration often involves a panel of arbitrators for complex cases, but in family law, it is often just a single arbitrator.

In complex cases, arbitration may involve multiple arbitrators; however, family law matters typically involve just a single arbitrator.

Key Differences Between Mediation and Arbitration

  • Voluntary vs. Binding: Mediation is voluntary and non-binding (unless an MOU is filed and approved by the court). Arbitration always results in a legally enforceable, binding decision, but may be appealable to the court.
  • Third-party Role: The mediator facilitates discussion toward a mutual settlement agreement. An arbitrator imposes a final decision after reviewing arguments from both sides.
  • Formality: Mediation is informal, flexible, and collaborative. Arbitration is structured, formal, and resembles court proceedings.
  • Outcome: Mediation can result in a mutually agreed-upon settlement agreement, while arbitration concludes with an enforceable arbitrator’s decision.
  • Control vs. Finality: Mediation allows parties to retain control over the outcome, whereas arbitration places final decision-making in the arbitrator’s hands.

When to Choose Mediation Over Arbitration

Consider mediation if:

  • You want to preserve relationships (e.g., business partners or divorce cases involving child custody and spousal support).
  • Flexibility and collaboration are priorities.
  • You prefer retaining control over the decisions and outcomes.
  • You’re involved in a family law case in Colorado, where mediation is usually required.

When to Choose Arbitration Over Mediation

Arbitration is the better choice when:

  • A swift, enforceable binding decision is essential.
  • You require quicker resolution than the traditional litigation process provides.
  • Specialized expertise is needed, such as in construction disputes or commercial contracts.

Choosing the Right Path: Mediation or Arbitration?

Understanding the difference between arbitration and mediation is key to making the right decision in resolving your legal disputes.

Both methods offer alternatives that help avoid the complexities, delays, and expenses associated with the court system.

But here’s the critical difference: Their processes, control over outcomes, and enforceability differ significantly.

If your situation requires binding arbitration, such as business litigation, contract disputes, or real estate conflicts, then the structured arbitration process might be your best option.

However

If your goal is to preserve relationships and collaboratively create a flexible settlement agreement, such as in divorce with children, a child custody case, or partnership matters, then the informal and cooperative mediation process is often the better option.

Laura E. Shapiro

Laura Shapiro is an award-winning Family Law Attorney with 40+ years of experience. Laura practices Family Law exclusively with her primary focus being divorce and child custody matters.

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